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It's never to
late...
~Unknown~
The first day of school
our professor introduced himself and challenged to get to know someone we didn't
already know. I stood up to look around when a gentle hand touched my shoulder.
I turned around to find a wrinkled, little old lady beaming up at me with a
smile that lit up her entire being. She said, "Hi handsome. My name is
Rose. I'm eighty-seven years old. Can I give you a hug?" I laughed and
enthusiastically responded, "Of course you may!" and she gave me a
giant squeeze.
"Why are you in
college at such a young, innocent age?" I asked. She jokingly replied,
"I'm here to meet a rich husband, get married, have a couple of children,
and then retire and travel." "No seriously," I asked. I was
curious what may have motivated her to be taking on this challenge at her age.
"I always dreamed of having a college education and now I'm getting
one!" she told me. After class we walked to the student union building and
shared a chocolate milkshake. We became instant friends. Every day for the next
three months we would leave class together and talk nonstop. I was always
mesmerized listening to this "time machine" as she shared her wisdom
and experience with me.
Over the course of the
year, Rose became a campus icon and easily made friends wherever she went. She
loved to dress up and she reveled in the attention bestowed upon her from the
other students. She was living it up.
At the end of the semester
we invited Rose to speak at our football banquet and I'll never forget what she
taught us. She was introduced and stepped up to the podium. As she began to
deliver her prepared speech, she dropped her three by five cards on the floor.
Frustrated and a little embarrassed, she leaned into the microphone and simply
said, "I'm sorry I'm so jittery. I gave up beer for Lent and this whiskey
is killing me! I'll never get my speech back in order so let me just tell you
what I know." As we laughed she cleared her throat and began: "We do
not stop playing because we are old; we grow old because we stop playing. There
are only two secrets to staying young, being happy, and achieving success. You
have to laugh and find humor every day. You've got to have a dream. When you
lose your dreams, you die. We have so many people walking around who are dead
and don't even know it!" "There is a huge difference between growing
older and growing up. If you are 19 years old and lie in bed for one full year
and don't do one productive thing, you will turn 20 years old. If I am 87 years
old and stay in bed for a year and never do anything, I will turn 88. Anybody
can grow older. That doesn't take any talent or ability. The idea is to grow up
by always finding the opportunity in change." "Have no regrets. The
elderly usually don't have regrets for what we did, but rather for things we did
not do. The only people who fear death are those with regrets." She
concluded her speech by courageously singing "The Rose."
She challenged each of us
to study the lyrics and live them out in our daily lives. At the years end Rose
finished the college degree she had begun all those years ago. One week after
graduation Rose died peacefully in her sleep. Over two thousand college students
attended her funeral in tribute to the wonderful woman who taught by example
that it's never too late to be all you can possibly be...
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